In reply to Elizabeth.

Elizabeth when we are really a Bible based Christians our focus would be on what God says (which is the same in all era's of time, His word doesn't change to conform to the world) not the world.
Judging is for God, we need to love each other and guide each other in the ways of the Lord. I pray that we all can stay focused on God's plan and be completely devoted to serving Him and His people. When we pray and seek God He will always reveal to us what is right or wrong (because He dwells in our hearts when we believe in Him )We are either for Him or against Him.
God bless and guide us to make choices according to His will.