Dear Kim--

The Bible forbids homosexual behavior--there's no getting around it. So, whether one is born that way (or not) is not the issue. The question is "What choices does one make?" As painful as it may seem, persons with homosexual tendencies are called to live a celibate life, if they are unable to relate sexually to the opposite sex. Heterosexual people have the same calling, until they enter into marriage.

We ought to pray for all people, not only those with same-sex attractions, but with any and all proclivities which would lead to breaking God's law. For example, there are many men and women who are very tempted to break their marriage vows. They need our prayers, too. I'm sure you can think of other examples.

I hope this helps.