I praise the Lord for your opening these issues to public discussion among His people. Whether same sex attraction is innate or learned is not the issue, as our brother has stated. It's how we deal with sinful thoughts which emanate from our sinful hearts that is the issue. Since many men from youth on are loaded with lustful thoughts toward women, is it, therefore, permissible to act on those thoughts and engage in sexual activity with any woman they desire? After all, this is part of their nature? As people redeemed by Christ I am confident that we would not condone such activity. We would encourage men to "daily drown the Old Man and let the New Man come forth and arise." Celibacy would be a godly path for either women or men dealing with same sex attraction.